When it comes to getting clarity around a decision, do you find yourself listening to your head, or your heart?
Do you talk yourself out of your decisions?
Do you feel old patterns or ways of being creep up when you’re trying to embody a new and more conscious way of approaching things and showing up in the world?
If you’re nodding along with a YES as you read this, you’re not alone.
After working intimately with women for ten years, I’ve discovered that when it comes to knowing what we truly want, we tend to:
- Isolate ourselves when we struggle
- Become obsessed with productivity over heart alignment
- Make decisions about what we want, then convince ourselves the only way to move forward is for someone else to tell us what to do
- And more...
Part of this struggle comes from feeling pulled by two conflicting parts of ourselves — that hold the same intention.
Both parts are trying to help us, and this causes confusion around what we really want.
For instance, as my husband and I search for a house, part of me wants to say YES to the first house that feels right. I have a pattern of making quickstart decisions — just so I can get over the anxiety of being in limbo, end the decision making process, and get to that sense of comfort and security again.
There is another part of me, a new pattern, that I've been consciously and actively working to embody. This part of me knows and believes that taking my time, checking in with my intuition and the Divine, spending time in nature, looking for signs — and even trusting the discomfort of not having the answer as I give myself more time and space — is the best way for my most aligned decisions to emerge.
So in this situation, which part of me is right? Or at least, which one is a better approach?
Is my old pattern actually helpful when dealing with an intense real estate market? Is my ability to be a quickstart and make the best of whatever happens an empowering approach? Or am I just falling into old ways of being that leave me anxious and stuck?
Thankfully, there’s an NLP coaching technique I’ve used many times before that’s helped me cut through the confusion and align with these different parts of myself — so I don't feel disconnected, confused, or unsure of what I want and how to move forward.
This powerful tool has helped me wade through the uncertainty that appears when I’m upleveling, trying to allow the next version of my life to emerge...
And I want to share this tool with you.
During our 1-hour call recording, Cutting Through Confusion: A Live NLP Coach Training & Sister Circle, you’ll:
- Discover how to use a powerful NLP coaching technique for yourself, live on the call
- Master tools to help you work throughout your cluttered mind
- Use the power of sisterhood to collaborate and move deeper into knowing what you want
- Get unapologetically clear about what you truly desire — and claim it!
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